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Monday, September 24, 2012

Cashing In The Chips

The email below from my dad, with the subject line: "Cashing In The Chips" arrived in my inbox after I had learned that he had suffered a major heart attack and died on Sunday, September 23, 2012.  He was only 76 years old and a kind-hearted, creative, one of a kind guy.  When someone you love passes away, there are scenes that replay in your mind you wish you could do again or share with the person who is gone.  You also want to tell people about them.  I want to use his last email as a way to warn you. Please read-on.

My dad was unusual during the “Leave It To Beaver” days of stay-at-home moms.  He was the “at-home” parent while my mom worked as I grew up.  He would often make me lunch of ham & cheese sandwich with Miracle Whip and Campbell’s Tomato Soup (now Miracle Whip never darkens my refrigerator door, but as a kid I liked it).

He always encouraged me to go outside to get some Vitamin D when I was sick.  He seemed to like unconventional cures over medicine. He thought he needed to encourage balance in my life so he told me he only wanted me to get “A” grades in Physical Education. All other subjects I did well, but I think he wanted me to remember to enjoy being alive.

I could share more (and no doubt will at his memorial service later this week).  For now, I want to share his last email to me.  I think his cholesterol was high for a number of years but he had lost weight and thought he had a clean bill of health just a few months prior.  This is how he felt the day before he died.  He had no other warnings or heart problems prior.  My dad was gone before the ambulance reached the hospital. 
IF YOU EXPERIENCE THESE TYPES OF SYMPTOMS – GO TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM IMMEDIATELY AND TELL THEM YOU THINK IT IS A HEART ATTACK!!!!
 
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Date: Sunday, September 23, 2012, 8:23 am
From: Bill Rogers
Subject Line: Cashing In The Chips

HI,

God REALLY ANSWERED OUR PRAYER LAST NIGHT...Saturday, 9/22. This kid almost cashed in his chips. How? It had been happening for about two days. I have/had high blood pressure. But I lost 22 lbs, and the blood pressure went down to normal. So, all was well and good. Then, I went to the grocery store, Friday, and some guy came up behind me in line talking about shooting birds, and his cat eating one a day.  I was feeling very angry at him and in myself. But, I said nothing to the guy.  I simply thought someone had wrapped my chest and arms in a very tight cloth.

 Then, yesterday, Saturday I started to get the same feeling in my chest. I took some aspirin, and a couple other pills, and it got worse. I went to bed but tossed and turned. Donna is SUCH a great helper. She knows exactly what to do. We tested my blood pressure and it was 195/ (something). WAAAAAY to high. I could not go to sleep. My chest and body kept aching. So, about 4 AM I got up and Donna found some blood-pressure pills that I had forgotten about. I took one and then did go to sleep. I awoke TIRED, but the blood pressure reading is now 130/87/96. I will rest today. We have to find out what caused it to zoom up. WHEW...DO NOT WANT THAT FEELING AGAIN!!!!

Talk with you later.
Love and hugs,